You know they belonged in your life 😘

Youve been through preschool, primary schools, high school, university, not work yet for me. After all these years, you sure been through so many kinds of challenges in life including the people you are dealing with everyday. Some leave. Some stay. Some leave memories, some left with hurt and pain. 

Well to me, the most toughest people i have to deal with so far is in my university life. Dramas, attitudes, spotlight grabber. Who have not deal with those kind people in our life? And till today, who stays? High school and primary school friends. That for me. Its God brought them into my life and make them stay. 

To be honest, living through my life so far, ive been dealing with so many typed of people in my life. But the ones that that finally made me break down, is those in university. Not all, some. Well, everyone is different i their own way. That  goes the same for me. I sometimes may be two faces, bitchy, over dramatic, drama queen, sensitive, well i have my bad sides too. Im pretty sure everyone have a bad and a good side. Lets all understand with the situation we are dealing with everyday, some people may not please you like you want them to, some people may not love up to your expectations like you expected and of course, no one is perfect. 

WE all as human dont like backstabbers, dont like bitches, dont like etcetc. We somehow end up commenting or worst, judging. Hey guys, sometimes we just have to understand, if we dont want backstabbers, lets not go around doing it? And lets just accept truth and speak the truth. Truth hurts. But arent all those the ones that push you to the strongest point? And if we all tell people, to stab talking behind our back, WE have to face the truth and accept the harsh truth about ourselves. Correct me if im wrong. 

Ive people coming directly to me saying that im ugly right to my face. It hurts! But its better accepting it than hearing it from so many other people. Ive had people coming to me and tell me what OTHERS are going around saying about me behind my backs. What else can i do, some i talk to them face to face, some, too hard to deal with. What hurts the most, till today ive this person that actually show face behind my back, talk about me behind my back, and i hurt it from his/her own friend! And hurts even more, the person acted so nicely in front of me. Well, i just let them be. Because i no these people it hard to please and they wont bring benefit to my life. 

But the point is, i learnt, accepting the harsh truth is better than backstabbing. At some point we may have accidentally done it, but lets try to reduce it? 

This one week of break really showed me who will always be there to support me, listen to me, push me up and of course never fail to let me smile when im down. Im so thankful, and blessed.