Dear life,
Im glad that you chose to hang on for so long despite those frowns and stress i put you through. Thank you that you never chose to put them to an end and you never gave up telling me to stay strong because you know me well that im strong inside out. You made me learn how to be happy and stay strong ever since i left home for my university life.
1. Failure doesnt mean you have to give up
Remember the sentence you read from chicken soup? It says 'it doesnt matter how many times you fail, it does matter how you fail and never try again'. You may fail a hundred times but when there's determination, there's alwayz success.
2. What people think bout you is none of your business
People have every rights to think about how they want to judge you, see you, talks about you, criticize you or etc. What matters most is take in what's you're supposed to and improve on it and fuck those doesn't bring you any benefit at all.
3. Keep smiling
Whatever happens, just smile. Fake or real, it's okay. People sometimes hate to see you smile. Talk to someone close or try to realease your sorrows so that you have less burden to carry.
4. It's okay to not shine
Does attention matters a lot to you? If no, why bothers trying to stand out among people who don't appreciates your presence at all. To shine, you don't do it on purpose. People will naturally make you shine if you deserve the spotlight.
5. Stop feeling bad
It's okay that sometimes you feel bad because it shows you care. Stop, think and sort out which you should really feel bad for and which not to. Sometimes people just do it on purpose to step on you and make you look bad. You can't please everyone, say yes to when you want to. Say no, if you don't feel like to,
6. Learn to love, even your enemy
Who says you can't love your enemy. They don't love you back but that doesn't mean you can't love them. Appreciates their presence, love them and accept them in your life. They were the ones that make you not give up and to grow stronger then before.
7. Walk out of drama
Sometimes you just met the wrong people who just loves creating unnecessary drama for you. Don't worry, just let them do it and don't try to mend it. True friends will stand by you and not fall into trap. Just walk out of it by not doing anything. People who walks away from you are those who don't appreciate your presence.
8. Cry if you need to
If you cry often, doesn't mean you're a crying baby. You just have too much soft side in you. If you're afraid of the public, go to your bed and your blanket will always be there. Don't keep, then you'll be the emotional person.
9. Appreciates
You may seem like you are not blessed like how others do. Wrong. Stop looking at others, look at yourself. Look at the tiny little things you have. Look at the people who never stop standing by you. Appreciates and be blessed instead of counting things you don't have.
10. Don't worry too much
Sometimes worrying too much ruins everything. Breathe, there's always a solution. It may be a long-term solution but there will definitely be one. God never put you through challenges you can't handle. Trust in God.
11. Your flaws does not determine your success
You may have a thousand flaws and still succeed. All you ever needed is confidence and believes.
12. Have less expectations
Why do you have to expect so high. If things will workout, it sure will. If it doesn't then maybe it's never your thing. Less expectations leads to less disappointment and more happy life.
A letter to myself. :)
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