I have been so into changing that i am working out, putting on make ups at home to learn how to make a prettier self. Sometimes upsets me thinking why can't i just born with perfect eyes and complexions. Then i wouldn't need to be covering myself with such thick products. As i was in the midst of so called 'trying to make myself prettier'. I thought about beauty.
I used to get so many negative comments about how i am and how i dress up which leads to the low confidence in myself. Being human, i think it is very natural that we all try our best to look presentable depending on our capability. Then, it make me think 'How do you define beauty?'
Its funny how when people around you try so hard to console you by saying things like,
'Appreciate how you are made'
'No, you are pretty the way you are'
'You are already pretty'
'You are pretty! Look into the mirror!'
However, when it comes to society, you got rejected because your outer beauty are compared to another person. You got insulted.
In my perception, i always look at beauty from the inside out. No matter how pretty you are, but your attitude and heart sucks, i just see you ugly and yes i am direct like that. However, being a normal human, i do look at pretty faces people while they walk by or on the social network. Then get all envy. I always tell myself, be blessed with what you have because every creation of God above is beautiful. The society is so spoiled and blinded by the outer beauty, even job selection, pretty faces come first before a person can present themselves. If i am the boss, i will definitely open it up to everyone not because i feel their rejection, but because i believe not all what the society classify as 'ugly' people are not capable of doing the job well. If it's modelling industry then it's fine, i understand. Why? because every single society out there looks at the pretty faces first.
I am only in my university level and i already felt the lack of confidence in me to present myself because of what people say, how am i going to have the confidence to even present myself to the outside world when i am already so afraid of the rejection.
Some people though, need to learn the meaning behind 'truth hurts, but truth is better'. You can be straightforward but say it in a nicer way. Learn that your words might not be anything to you but it may bring a big impact to someone else. Understand that rejection is really a terrible thing and that not everyone WANTS to be born with your so called 'ugly' face. We are created like that, born like that, and we are proud of what we are until people like you guys come and take your confidence away,
I am saying this because i really hope someday the society would not judge a person based on their pretty faces first. Instead, on how they are able to present themselves. It has come to my attention that rejection on looks increased and definitely hurts so many other people out there.
If you are reading this, or you came across this, learn to tell people around you that they are beautiful in every single way. This simple sentence, can actually make at least 10 people smile.
So today, i end this post with a song,
Toods,
Jan
Night
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