I don't believe non of us in this world that never experience the feeling of falling in love before. Regardless whether it is crushes or being in a relationship. There are so many types of relationships or so called love,
How many couple in this world we can see that either the guy uses his money to impress the girl, or the girl being materialistic. Fact is, if you only fall in love because the other person has the money in the world, or you are using your money to impress the girl, the relationship can never be happy. If both survive the relationship through the cashes they have, it only need a minute for them to break-up. That is to burn all their cashes. We can also see the long distance relationship couple. It is really a blessing sometimes to see couple that are still sweet even though they are miles apart. Not all LDR last though. LDR definitely need both to work together to make the sparks continue. Well, whatever relationships there are in this world, here is something i just want to share.
Not every relationships can be developed through special gifts. Money. Continuous surprises. It takes two to sit down once in a while to share and talk it out about how things are going. Social network is never gonna work. One article i read in elitedaily about feelings that cannot be forced. I totally felt so connected with the article because i understand what i am reading. I realize that no matter how two people in a relationship work hard, if there is really no love feeling, there really won't be one. You cannot force yourself to fall in love. Loving that person and having feeling of falling in love is totally different. You cannot force the other person to fall in love with you by buying gifts and things just to impress them.
When you found someone you truly fall for, don't rush into it. Take your time and have trust. :)
Below are the articles i really thought the writer wrote it well and i want to share them with you,
Quoted from Elite Daily
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" Last year, I broke up with my now-ex-boyfriend. One morning, I woke up and realized something: I wasn’t in love with the man next to me.When I tried to explain to him what I meant, I was unable to find the right words to say. I couldn’t express myself articulately because I could barely understand why I felt what I was feeling.All I could definitively say was I felt unsatisfied. When I tried to rationalize, I concluded that I cared for him deeply. I respected him; I trusted him; I even loved him — but I was not in love with him. "
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"Chemistry cannot be forced. Connectivity with another person is a strange concept; people with different interests can end up being the best of friends."
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"Remember, one of the main reasons we’re capable of loving another person as much as we are, is how he or she makes us want to improve ourselves and the lives we lead. Other people never really fix you."
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