June 12, tired tired tired. Do i? I think so. Attending class is not that tired actually. It's the interval of waiting that kills. WOW WOW WOW, an hour of waiting for class to start gave me a pretty big slap on muh face actually. I thought dramas actually ended, but no. I was wrong. Oh Thank God i am not in it because ive sticking more to myself since the semester started.
To have someone to tell me about someone that is now close to me and which i actually thought who will cause less drama is like 'WTF GIRL, WHAD DIDCHU JUST SAID?' I went like,
To have someone to tell me about someone that is now close to me and which i actually thought who will cause less drama is like 'WTF GIRL, WHAD DIDCHU JUST SAID?' I went like,
Meinnnnnnnnnnnn, you gotta be kidding me, when i was about to finally settle down, then ive got all this coming in to me. And there is this thing about me that sometimes i cannot control my mouth which now makes me wanna tell myself,
Yeup! That's right, every single time now and then, i just remind myself this.
*switch topic* DUDE! Why the fuck are you playing yo drums at this hour (11.07pm)! Go somewhere else and play it! It is pricking noisy!
Okay now back to where i was. So you know, dramas in university never end. So let me tell you how to survive in it based on what i've gone through.
*WARNING : THIS IS SOMETHING I SUGGEST. NOT ASKING YOU TO FOLLOW THEM BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT I'VE SEEN FROM MY PERSPECTIVE. And this usually happens to girl only, guys usually can handle it. Why? Because *no offend* girls are much more of a drama queen.
1. Be friendly, not sharing your lifelong story
You have better friends before you enter university where you can share it, but not the one who just met for the first day who smile so sweetly at you. NEVER. No matter how sweet one person smile, do not be tempted. Trust me, and just stay friendly till maybe you think she is really someone nice to hangout with for the semester. Or maybe when she is close enough to share her story with you.
2. Listen, don't join in the bitch-talk
You may sound really desperate to tell what you think about that someone (their bad stuff), BUT, NO, never share them just like that. You never realize how much of a drama things will get. I suggest you either keep it to yourself, or go to that someone and tell them the truth of what you feel. (Unless that person cannot take it then don't lah. :) Truth hurts but truth hurts more to hear it from someone else rather than own friend)
3. Don't bother about having people say 'kiasu'
You know yourself better than EVERY SINGLE PERSON IN YOU UNI, so if you think you really need to start studying early because you can't cope with the time, do it. Trust me. Don't bother about them calling you a 'kiasu'. So many people i've known here who tell me 'I never study finish yet! Oh no i am gonna fail', trust me, they are those who get first class.
4. Just be yourself
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. People, NEVER STOP JUDGING, whether you try to look good or not, they just have very negative things to say. They will never be nice until they feel you are prettier than them. By that time, they will be sticking so close to you, even elephant glue cannot beat the strength. Just smile and say 'thank you'. Most people will get pissed off thinking why you are not even angry about it. #life
:P Short and easy kan?
Just me and my nags. Enjoy reading!
Jan
June, Friday the 13th
I love the time alone i have right now. :)
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